Tuesday, June 18, 2013

"A FAMILY STORY" - (PART 2 ) THE FOSTER/MALMIERCA´S


As mentioned in the first part of this story, when my Father (James Henry Robert Foster)(1897-1961) was discharged from the army, in 1922 he decided to visit Argentina. He traveled various places of the country and then settled in Buenos Aires. He thoroughly enjoyed his stay and the companionship of many of the WW1 veterans, so much so that he decided to remain here.

As his savings were quite low he decided to get to work. His friends informed him there were three good possibilities: “Alpargatas”, administrating a ranch or the railways.   He finally decided for the last mentioned and applied for a job at the “Great Southern Railway”- I often wonder if his decision was influenced by his experience during the last months of the war as he was stationed at a rail-head   somewhere in France-Belgium.

So he started work at the Central Office as a trainee and he was there till 1924. However, whilst in Central Office, the youngest of the Meek family arrived from England, to work for the railway. According with my long friendship with Uncle Eric Meek (1902-1987) I was told that as soon as he arrived at the offices he started to look for my Father and he, in turn, used to avoid him. Till one day they met down a one office passages and Dad referred to him as “Hello, you little B…..” that brought about a life long friendship and fishing adventures.

That same year Dad was transferred to the town of Balcarce (Province of Buenos Aires). A very quiet town in those days, but with a small English speaking community.

That is where he met the lady that was to be my Mother:  Carmen Malmierca (1901-1986). He first set eyes on her at the local theatre, when accompanied, as usual still, in those days, by her chaperon: my great-Aunt Zaida (Aunt Zaida was a spinster but was well known for both her good looks and her stern character.). So a few days later meeting them strolling down town he addressed them in his disastrous Spanish requesting permission to visit her at their home. After the usual family reunion the visits were approved.

Carmen, Grandfather Julio, aunt Letti


My Grandfather Dr.Julio V. Malmierca (1876-1958) was both a chemist and a dentist. He was born in the city of Mercedes (Bs.As),( who’s father had been a notary with offices both in the town of Mercedes and in Av.Belgrano in Buenos Aires and founder of the, in those days,  famous theatre Orfeon.) Grandfather traveled to Balcarce in 1900 where he founded a chemist shop. Those were the days where chemist attended patients as doctors, dentists, apart from his usual work of preparing prescriptions for patients. He was a most interesting man and knew much of argentine history, both from his personal experience and his family. He became Mayor on two periods in the time when Dr.Marcelo T. de Alvear was president of the country.  As many people in those days he took office a well to do man and left in a poor financial situation.  

Top: Uncles  Ulises, Julitoand Osman, Dad
Bottom: Aunt Pirucha, Grandfather Julio, Grandmother Jorgelina,
Mother and aunt Letti, baby Aunt Alida .(1925)

The first Malmierca, Feliciano, arrived in Buenos Aires from Castilla La Nueva (Spain) in 1804 and   set up a shop as Military Tailor very near the main plaza.  He became quite known as he worked, first for the Viceroy and later with all the invasions, the 1810 revolution and war with Spain and Brazil business  was very prosperous as mentioned in General Gregorio Araóz de Lamadrid memoirs.

In 1820 the central government named him “distinguished neighbour”

He married Maria del Carmen Porrás, direct descendant of Antonio de Porras who came with Juan de Garay from Paraguay and founded, for the second time, the town of Buenos Aires (1580)

 The tailor shop business was very good and so were the investments, but due to politics, being very much against the government of Rosas he and his son had to migrate in 1840. So together with fourteen other citizens amongst them General José Maria Paz (mentioned in General José Maria Paz memoirs) rowed their way to Uruguay. As the consequence of this all his properties were confiscated. On their return after the over- through of Rosas in 1852 their properties were not returned, not even after investing in very expensive law-suits.       

As to my Grandmother  Jorgelina Puig (1880-1979):The first Puig of this branch was Francisco Puig, a chemist from Barcelona that arrived in Buenos Aires  around 1830 and set his pharmacy in the area of Montserrat.. (City of BsAs.) He married a miss Brígida Rubio a very strong anti-Rosas who helped those to be in danger to escape the country.(There was a strong article about her in the magazine Esquiú in February 1965 – The editor of this magazine was Father Agustín Luchía Puig  - a cousin to my Grandmother.)
When Grandmother died, in 1979 (aged 99) Father Luchia Puig presided the farewell ceremony at the Pilar church and she was laid to rest in the Luchia Puig vault at the “Recolecta” cemetery  

Grandmother’s parents were Matilde Noirell and Jorge Puig.  Jorge Puig was on friendly terms with General Olascuaga who had been in Generals Roca’s expedition to subdue the Indians attacks (1879).
and offered Jorge Puig to finance the first expedition of farmers  to settle in Fort General Roca (1888)(today the city of General Roca in the Rio Negro province). The Puigs and family (My Grandmother then 8 years of age and her sisters, Zaida and Matilde) left Buenos Aires and arrived at Carmen de Patagones..  (I do not know how they traveled there but according to William Henry Hudson’s stories it was normally by ship to “El Carmen”)

Once there, the girls went to school at Maria Auxiliadora for a few months till the farmers arrived and they took off to Fuerte Gral.Roca on horse-back and wagons. On arrival the town of General Roca was founded.   (For further information please refer to Internet: www. Los Malmiercas). From there they crossed the Andes into Chile where my grand-uncle was born: Dr. Raul Puig. After a few years the Puigs settled in the town of Balcarce and Joge Puig administered several camps.

Back to my Father, he was transferred in 1924 to the town of Cipoletti (Prov. of Rio Negro). So after three months of courtship my Father proposed and they married in Balcarce and traveled to settle in Chipolletti, which in those days it must have been a very small town.

However, I do not think they remained long there as  later they were again transferred, this time, to Bahía Blanca (Prov.of Bs.As.) that was and still is a booming city.

They enjoyed life there, settled in a lovely house, had an interesting social life and Dad had to travel often within the area, specially the town of Tornquist where the railways maintenance shops were situated.

During his stay at Bahia Blanca, amongst his many friends were Lieutenant Colonel Alvarez and his family. This family came from the Province of San Juan.  During their stay took place both army and naval maneuvers and Dad was invited to attend them as Alvarez adviser. I do not know much of what really took place; I only remember my Fathers comments of a lot of traveling in motor launch amongst the inlets of the area.

From here on, for a few years, happenings are rather hazy:

On the 9th of July 1928 my brother was born like all of us at my Grand-parent’s house in Balcarce.

Soon after that Dad was transferred to Central Office in Buenos Aires and when Digby was one year old they went on “Home Leave” to England to present Grandmother Clara with her first Foster grandson.

As to the Alvarez family we often had their visit at our home in Lomas de Zamora where we lived.
Alvarez did not agree with the new authorities of the 4th of June 1943 revolution, so he retired from the army and all the family returned to the Province of San Juan.
However, during dinner on the 15th.of January 1944 at 20.52 an earthquake hit San Juan. The Alvarez home was completely destroyed and Alvarez and his youngest son were killed.  Their remains were buried with all military honours in the cemetery of the Recoleta in Buenos Aires.

When back in Buenos Aires Dad  got back to his friend Eric Meek who had married Miss Maria Luisa Bourdon in 1927 (Auntie Nena) and  in1928  Ronnie Meek was born, followed Mary and later Alice.

I was born in 1933, and my sisters Lillian in 1936 and Joyce in 1939.

In 1934 my Parents again took home leave but I was left with my Grand-parents in Balcarce.(I suppose I would have been a nuisance)


Dad on "home leave"

When Dad and Eric took up their fishing excursions I do not know.  My first was when I was 7 and we went two years running to a camp in Quequen belonging to a Dr. Astelarra from the town of Necochea. To get there a grand-uncle used to drive us from Balcarce to the camp.   I remember we used to fish in a stream near by the dunes that gave into the sea and we slept in a bungalow. The first year I was in to give a fright to most of the party as  soon as we arrived Digby took off running amongst the dunes and I tried following but I got lost … my cries were so loud that I saw Dad running up the dune at full speed for he though I has encountered a snake.

Another fishing excursion, where we used to travel to spend a Sunday quite often, was very near the town of Ranelagh.  We used to take a small train at Temperley station and get of at the station before Ranelagh. From there we would walk a couple of  Kms. and arrive at a farm of a Mr.Ballesteros who had made his farm into a bird sanctuary, dam a stream that used to flow within his farm and turned it into a fishing site.    No shooting was allowed, only fishing offered to friends.  As to Mr.Ballestero I remember him quite clearly: a man dressed in bombachas and boots and carried a whacking big revolver in its holster by his right side.

Years later when Mr.Ballestero died, everything was destroyed and, although I haven’t been in that area for years I do not doubt, today, it is all built in.

Our next expedition was to the Samborombón river. Quite far from the railway station of Cnel. Brandsen (FCS) To get there we used to take the train to the mentioned station, and on our bicycles Dad, Digby Eric, Ronnie and myself cycled to the river and  spend the day there. I those days, what is today route 29 was then an earth road.

Who, in those days, would have thought that, at least, ten years later Charlie Dodds and I would arrive there on our horses and sleep under the railway bridge.

Finally, both Dad and Eric noticed the “Salado” river (160 Kms. From Bs.As.by train to Guerrero station.) So they went down on a tour of inspection. The area was very pretty and the river quite wide with good fishing….   So, for at least ten years, we adopted the area.

First, it was spending the week-end sleeping, like hoboes, under the bridge of Route 2.

My first experience was about 1942, with Dad we slept under the bridge on a lovely moon light night. that streamed along the river bed. I was very much impressed at the amount and variety of duck.

As time went by things got better organized a so we became to spend two weeks in February with a big tent, that could fit eight camp beds, first under the road bridge and later at the small farm of Sr. Doming Ursino´s, who was a commercial fisherman, sending his catch to market to the town of Mar del Plata.

Normally we were Dad, Uncle Eric, Ronnie, Digby and myself. Life would start early in the morning when Dad got us out of bed at 6.30 with a cup of tea and sent us walking two kms to the Guerrero estancia to buy vegetables, meat and other supplies.

On our return to camp we were received with a good breakfast of bacon and eggs. After which we went fishing, rowing, in one of Ursino´s boats, walking down the river sides, swimming, and other sports.

Long walks also took place up river to the old bridge of the unused old road to the town of Dolores.

Sometimes we would go down the steel works of the Railway Bridge and fish from the pillars.

One year, I was not present when this occurred, Dad and Eric were fishing from one of the pillars one at each point, when a fast train went through the bridge tooting away …. As it past the pillar, somebody in the train flushed the W.C. and Eric received a surprise present on his left shoulder…. At the shout of Harry, Harry, Dad went to inspect what the trouble was and very slowly took of Eric’s stained shirt and through it in to the river.

Another time, after breakfast we all got into the boat with the idea of fishing. Dad was rowing till we arrived at a spot where that was considered suitable. On arrival, Dad gave the order, “Eric, through the anchor”  “Aye, aye, sir” and through the anchor…… the anchor was not tied to the boat. So the four of us jumped into the water and swam around to no avail. The brown waters of the river had secured the anchor for ever.

Eric could work wonders with Dad and could mellow his strong character when in an explosive mood.
This was so much so, that whenever we had a problem with Dad, either at home or camping we used to go to visit Uncle Eric to ask his advice.

As time went by the neighbours became very friendly towards us and we were well received by Ursino, the Station master and his family, Martinez, the local policeman, the administrator of the Guerrero estancia and of course El Vasco.

El “vasco” was an entity in himself:  He was Dads man Friday, when he had news that Dad was arriving he would be at the station platform waiting with his wheel-barrow to load it with our tent plus many other guia and we would all walk the two Kms. to the river bed and help set up the tent and camp beds.  He hardly spoke; we never quite knew where he came from or what had been his life.
He lived in a shack on the other bank of the river together with his dogs, hens, etc.
The local story that we heard was that he had been a nice young man but when he returned from WW1
he completely abandoned himself….    One day he mumbled to me something about the French Foreign Legion but that is all.  Every neighbour helped him out.  He used to address my Father as “Don Mister Foster”


Pepe (El Vasco)

 With time Digby and Ronnie stopped coming with us so I was allowed to bring a friend with me.
And one morning after having made our shopping and sat down to breakfast, on the other side of the camp wire on the Guerreros estancia¨we were approached by a tall man dressed in whites and two Great Dane dogs with him.  He wished us Good Morning and then introduced himself as Dr. Russo, the husband of Valeria Guerrero, he mentioned that he had seen us come camping for quite a few years and that they had asked references about us and that we were known as “good persons” and therefore we were invited to lunch at the Guerrero´s chateau on the Sunday.


Joyce,Eric,David,Ronnie and Dad


Sunday came along and Dad got us all into the river to have a proper bath, so we soaped ourselves, don on sport coat and tie and went into the estancia.  We all laughed on arrival as Mr. and Mrs. Russo had dressed as hoboes as to not make us feel uncomfortable. David, my companion and I swam in the pool, whilst the elders had their drinks.  After a very good lunch we were toured round the chateau which was built on the base of the old fort of walls 60 cms.wide. The tour was very interesting and many things brought from abroad were seen.

The friendship continued for many years whenever the Russo family was in residence, and on occasions they would go out, up-river in their launch and Eric playing his banjo. Another interesting lady that we met there was a Miss Gisela Shaw. This lady which was part of the family that owned the Shaw Bank had been in the 1930´s with the government of the time within the Ministry of Education. I believe she was quite an eccentric person and in those days as she use to walk down B.A. dressed in cowboy boots, skirt and a large Mexican sombrero. 

Valeria and her husband lived, mostly, in the town of General Madariaga.Estancia “La Raquel” has been for many years turned into a Fund for Music and arts, plus a tourism resort. 
On the many sea resorts in the south of Buenos Aires one is named “Valeria del Mar”
As to Miss Gisela Shaw she donated all her paintings to a welfare society.

During our stay, the middle Sunday, Dad used to cook his special “Hot Curry”, expecting our guests.
Days before he would dig a deep hole and get el “Vasco” to bring in his wheel-barrow a bar of ice. This was deposited in the hole and filled up with bear and other drinks.  At eleven o’clock arrived the train to Guerrero station, and on passing the bridge, friends would wave announcing their arrival.
After the walk of the two Kms. from station to camp they were received with cool Gin-Tonics and then sit down for the hot curry. (I was given a softer portion) And I used to stare at the guests: George Dent, Eng.Bearly (forgotten the rest) together with Dad and Eric, in the heat of the afternoon eating away the Hot Curry and downed with bear. perspiring away.  Around 3.30 pm they would walk back to the station, waving again on passing the bridge, and back to B.A… Their return, on the train, was, at the bar drinking bear.

During some of the years we spent holidays at the Salado River were whilst the war was raging (1939-
1945) in most of the world.

My first recollection of the war was when the battle of the River Plate took part and there was a welcome party to the sailors of the Ajax at the Lomas Athletic Club. Although I was about 6 years old I remember this issue quiet clearly, as I was given cigatte by one of the sailors. I was smoking away when brother Digby (11) caught me in the act and went and told Dad, who was in the “Welcome Committee”, I saw Dad coming at a full run and I started running and puffing with my cigarette till finally caught up and given me a thorough shaking.

We were all aware of the situation and sooner or later we all had our, small or big, effort within it. 
Dad, not being accepted as a volunteer, took his work within the British Legion. Erik Meek, George Dent and many others, gave concerts and comedies, mainly at the Barker Hall, to entertain people and raise funds for the war effort.
My small contribution was as from 1943 was working at the local “Dump”, where people donated all sort of things to be sold and the profit sent to the War Fund.

The Lomas Club had a grand fete at its grounds in Links where even an elephant was brought in.

As to my town, Balcarce, as many others, came to the rescue. Thanks to Mr. & Mrs. Pagnam (with their two sons volunteering into the RAF), the railway chief engineer, was backed by the most of the population of the town.    Balcarces donations made able to the building of a Spitfire (The Fellowship of the Bellows (?)). I had, until a short time, and I gave it to my son, that lives in Spain, a pin of a Spitfire that had been presented to my Grandfather.   
As war raged and things became very difficult the different Institution both British and Argentine (Pro-allied) jumped to its duty…. Men and women that worked during the day use to find time to help the war effort.  Thousands of volunteers joined the allied forces. Men and women that should never be forgotten and to whom I take my hat off in remembrance and respect.
And comes to my mind, something learnt at St.Alban´s College: Shakespeare’s:

In peace nothing so becomes a man as modest stillness and humility
But when the blast of war blows in our ears
Then imitate the action of the tiger
Stiffen the sinews, summon up the blood
Disguise fair nature with hard favoured rage
And lend the eye a terrible aspect, let it pry through the portage of the head.
Like the brass cannon, let the brow overwhelm it.


 We saw the return of many volunteers arrive back home and all settled down to their circumstances.

During 1945 (after the surrender of Germany) or 46 the “Ajack” returned to Argentina….  Dad, Eric and I went to visit it one afternoon.  However we were not aloud as that same afternoon they were taking on board (some) prisoners of the Graf Spee that had been interned in the country for the duration. Most of them were in uniform and they were guarded by marines (Turtle necks?) with rifles and bayonets. 

 As to Eric, when the railways were sold found a job at Duperial and when pensioned he worked for the British Embassy whilst he was, also, teaching English. He continued to entertain people at the Barker Hall in “Get-Togethers” for funds for the British Community Council.


Leslie Cockshot,Alice Meek,Eric Meek,Maira Comber,Billy Thomas



At the time he also had to two youngsters whom he taught to play the banjo: Leslie Cockshot and Billy Thomas. The trio was most successful in their concerts.

I enjoyed visiting his house on Colombres street, where the Meeks lived, and many Sunday evenings he met with George Dent and Reginald Hortis and together: Eric (banjo) Dent (piano) and Hortis (saxo) use to play together. I imagine it was not only practice and good fun but to take of the “blues” of Sunday evenings.

Eric and Aunty Nena later moved to a flat in Adrogué and we use to meet every Thursday visiting Dad at the British Hospital and come back home together in the train, and would talk all our way back, with no rest.

As a teacher of English he was a success and remained so after going to live in the town of Tandil where, occasionally, I was able to visit him.

The last time I saw Eric, personally, was in 1983 when there was a “Jam Session” at St.Alban´s College where took place the 25th.anniversary of Billy and Leslie, as banjo players, which was a great success.

Eric danced most of the night with a very pretty lady……

One day in 1987 Mary phoned me from Tandil to inform me that Eric had passed away….. 

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Derek R. Foster
“Dry Alamo”                                                                                              

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